U did the right thing if u r sure of what ur heart says…and by holding firm to ur decision, why the analysis again? This IS a guy’s perspective. There is no light to shed, nothing complicated except that u r complicating ur own thoughts. Analyzing a self-induced complicated thoughts like this is akin to running in circles; best done with galfrens, or if it’s a guy, a wussy. WHAM! Yea, I am being harsh and straightforward becoz I strongly feel u r crippled in dealing with such simple matter. Whatever it may make u feel. And only a fren say this. Think about it.