Note to Self

Gracie, please learn to be more vocal.

You can do so much better in things that you are afraid of doing or trying. You are too self-concious and you got to break away from that. Stop playing Ms.Very Nice, in which you want to please everyone. And if you think you failed to please everyone, it’s okay. That’s reality. That’s normal. Because you can’t please everyone. Just do your best and the rest will take its on course.

I know I’ve told you this for so many times, Gracie.

But it’s okay, sometimes we need to be reminded from time to time. Because sometimes we tend to forget.

Have more confidence in yourself.

The Lovely You

3 responses to “Note to Self”

  1. Hi Gracie,

    I am so…with you when reading your letter to your ownself.

    Sometimes when things agitate me I in the end will apologise and blame myself. I am confuse. I try to be nice in result I keep seeing my own shortcomings but not the good things on me.

    Gracie, you are right that we can’t please everyone in the world. Always please yourself first dearie. Because that is to keep you happy.

  2. I was afraid of failure, rejection and confrontation all my life. I don’t know when the turning point was but now I’m just too indifferent, belligerent and confrontational.

    You are you. Regardless, that doesn’t mean you should sell yourself short or be trampled on. Just don’t go too far off to the other side like me. 🙂

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